Unlock Your Whole Self
About Me
Hi! I’m Melissa, a licensed therapist in St. Louis, MO. I see clients in my Clayton office as well as virtually anywhere in Missouri and Illinois.
I work with individuals 18+ who want to learn more about themselves and create a life that feels in line with who they are and what they want. Many of my clients are undergoing life transitions of all kinds, feeling stuck in patterns, experiencing anxiety, and seeking deeper understanding and lasting change.
You can read more about me here: VoyageSTL
My Approach
All of our relationships, especially our earliest relationships, impact our sense of safety and security and create the framework for how we feel about ourselves and the world around us. Often our most wonderful and painful experiences happen in relationships, and I believe that healing also happens in relationships. When we feel safe enough to share parts of ourselves we don’t like or experiences we’ve found painful, our understanding of those parts and experiences can shift. My therapeutic framework is psychodynamic (drawing on the past to understand the present) and collaborative. I believe in meeting you where you are and bringing in different resources based on what you’re experiencing and what you find helpful, which can change over time.
Life can be incredibly hard at times. We can't control or change what has happened to us, what we needed but didn't get, or how isolating and confusing things can be. Sometimes we don't understand why we feel the way we do, our reactions, or what to do next. Maybe we don't feel much at all. We don't have to keep repeating the same patterns or relating to ourselves and others in the same ways, even though that might feel impossible right now. I know reflecting on our behaviors, thought patterns, and life experiences can be incredibly difficult, and I’m here to support you through that process.
Specialities
Complex trauma / cPTSD / relational trauma
Identity work (who am I, what do I want, what are my needs, etc.)
Anxiety
LGBTQIA2S+ identifying / questioning / allied folks
Life transitions (divorce, job change, loss, etc.)
Family of origin
Chronic stress
Attachment
Grief
Perimenopause / Menopause / Chronic health issues
Relationship challenges
Self-esteem
Body liberation / Health at Every Size (HAES)
I do frequently work with concerns not specified here so feel free to reach out if you think we might be a fit.
Approaches / Modalities
Attachment-based
Trauma-informed
Mindfulness
Self-compassion
Parts work
I also incorporate other approaches and resources as is helpful.
What to Expect
Reach out to schedule a call.
Free 15-minute phone consultation.
Meet in person or online.
Education and Training
Education
M.A. in Clinical Mental Health Counseling (Lindenwood University)
M.S. in Biological and Physical Sciences (University of Virginia)
Ph.D. in Microbiology (University of Virginia)
Certifications / Selected Trainings
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
Certified Body Trust® Specialist
Integrative Somatic Trauma Therapy
Emotionally Focused Therapy Externship
Certificate of Supervised Practice in Psychodynamic and Systems Counseling
Certificate of Study in Psychodynamic and Systems Counseling
Licenses
Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), State of Missouri #2021030524
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor (LCPC), State of Illinois #180.01788